Mr. Haines was offered an amazing position in Seattle to come on board a movie that changes life and a worship pastor to double that. If i were him, I would never turn it down. It is suiting that his loving wife would accompany him to Seattle for support and so they can be together. We have all heard this quote, "If you truly love something, you have to be able to let it go." We all love Mrs. Haines, so we should all let her go for the better. She will be greatly missed but we will always remember her in our hearts